today divert bout other stuffs den soccer.. most ppl like to claim tat they are "open" bout juz everyting but e truth is, NO ONE CAN EVER BE OPEN BOUT EVERYTHING. take for an eg, u say u r open but wen sum1 commented bout e way u portray urself, u started to flare up, lashing at them..insulting their weakness as ur defence. how can u be "open-minded" wen u cant accept wat ppl say? n worst, insulting other's weakness as a defence?
how can u be "open" wen u r alwaes trying to please everybody all e time? after some time, u get sick n bored of doin so! being "open" is where u r wat u r n ppl accept as wat u r.. u dun change for ppl to be more "open". NOW tat is being accepted, it is not "open" or modernised..most get confused among e word modernised, open & being accepted..i dono wat am i for i'm searching myself stil..which are u? & how sure are u, u belong to tat category?